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Focus your team with this fast and remarkably effective employee development activity

You know exactly WHAT your team needs to have a remarkable new year, now it’s time to focus on HOW. How do you identify the habits that will make the biggest difference? In today’s Asking for a Friend, I share an EASY, and CREATIVE development exercise we’ve been using with teams worldwide– to build the habits most critical to their success.

This exercise works great in one-on-one coaching, mentoring, or career development conversations. 

It begins by inviting your team to reflect on one habit or behavior that would make a significant difference in their work.  Or, in accomplishing a specific MIT (Most Important Thing) priority. This should be a vital habit, that feels challenging to do well.

Our SynergyStack™ System makes it easy to identify key habits, with forty-eight proven habits to choose from (and a few bonus cards to add your own).

This employee development activity works great for one-on-one or team development conversations in your next team meeting.

How to Coach Your Team on the Team on the Habits that Matter Most

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Learn More About the SynergyStack™ Team Development System

The SynergyStack™ System is a revolutionary team development system that fosters collaboration and ignites team performance.

If you’re tired of light team-building activities that don’t create lasting change, the SynergyStack™ gives you the framework for more meaningful conversations. Team-building that sticks.

Unleash Productivity

The SynergyStack™ System catalyzes sustained team productivity and personal excellence. Build robust habits that lead to breakthrough results and happier teams.

Less Stress, Better Teamwork

Create a space where teamwork beats tension. SynergyStack team development and team-building activities turn stress into progress by agreeing to a well-defined framework for everyone to work together smoothly and peacefully.

Collaborate with Confidence

 Communication is the bedrock of successful teamwork. The SynergyStack™ System equips everyone with the language and insight to contribute meaningfully, ensuring that ideas flow and collaboration is seamless.

A Multiverse of Applications

 Whether you’re an executive steering a start-up, an HR leader committed to building a great culture, or a trainer looking for proven, easy-to-use team development activities, the Synergy Stack is your versatile partner. Its diverse applications adapt to your needs, delivering impactful outcomes fast with precision.

Quickly See Real Change

This isn’t just a fun team-building tool. The SynergyStack™ System creates a new way of working together—real change. Bring the SynergyStack™ System into your team’s routine and watch how fast things improve—how your team gets things done, communicates, and reaches new heights.

We also offer SnergySprint Team Retreats and SynergyStack™ Facilitator Certification.  We’d love to discuss the best ways to use the dozens of employee development activities and extensive resource center. Contact us here to learn more. 

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High-Performing Teams Turn Pressure into Progress, One Habit at a Time

Your team’s under pressure to perform—fast. The stakes are high, the deadline looms, and emotions are running hotter by the minute. Just last week, your team was cruising along. They weren’t going to win any high-performing team awards, but things were working well enough. Sure, there were a few bumps in communication, and collaboration wasn’t always seamless, but nothing too disruptive.

But today you got… the news.

Suddenly, everything feels like it’s unraveling. Casual conversations have transformed into tense exchanges, misunderstandings are piling up, and people are tripping over one another.

Of course, it happens just when you need everyone at their best—focused, fast, and flawless. But instead of smooth execution, you’re dealing with constant rework and rising frustration.

Under stress, people move fast—but not always in the same direction, and certainly not with the same level of clarity.

So, what do you do when cracks start to show under the weight of tight deadlines and high expectations? How do you prevent the stress from spiraling into mistakes, drama, or even burnout?

Pressure doesn’t have to lead to panic—it can lead to progress. Let’s explore four dimensions of collaboration and a few of the habits that help your team not just survive pressure, but thrive.

4 Dimensions of Collaboration in High-Performing Teams

Connection: Do We Know Each Other as Human Beings?

Under stress, personal bonds become your team’s best defense against chaos. When people know each other beyond their roles and see each other as humans with emotions, not just coworkers, collaboration becomes smoother, and misunderstandings are easier to resolve.

One habit that makes an enormous difference in high-pressure moments is “connecting with empathy.”

This means stepping back from the rush of tasks to acknowledge emotion. Imagine the impact of saying, “It looks like you’re juggling a lot—what can I do to lighten your load?” This small act of empathy shows you care about more than just the work. It shows you value your teammate as a person, which helps build trust when things feel uncertain.

Synergy Stack Team Development SystemAnother powerful habit is “knowing each other beyond work.” High-performing teams build their performance through small moments of connection.

Asking about someone’s weekend and then asking a great follow-up question create personal bonds that matter, especially during stressful times. When pressure mounts, these casual connections remind people they’re part of a supportive team.

Powerful Phrases for Creating Human Connection in High-Performing Teams

Use simple but meaningful phrases like, “Tell me more” to encourage open dialogue. Or “We’re in this together, and I know we’ll find a way” to reinforce unity and support. When emotions run high, words that reflect empathy and connection help refocus the team on their shared purpose.

When your team feels truly connected, they’re more likely to stick together and help each other out, no matter how intense the pressure gets.

Clarity: Do We Have a Shared Understanding of Success?

In high-pressure situations with tight deadlines, clarity drives success. Without it, even the best teams lose focus, wasting time on miscommunication and misunderstandings. To succeed under stress, be sure you’ve clearly defined success and the habits to achieve it.

One crucial habit is “checking for understanding.”

You’ve certainly experienced leaving a meeting thinking everyone’s on the same page, only to find out later that wasn’t the case. In high-pressure environments, miscommunication is costly.

A quick check like, “I’m hearing that we’ve agreed to __. Is that your understanding?” may seem small, but it prevents major problems later. This habit keeps everyone aligned, especially when things are changing fast.

Finally, don’t underestimate “communicating consistently.” When the world feels chaotic, key messages can easily get lost. Reinforce essential information across multiple channels—emails, meetings, and team chats—to ensure your message sticks. Consistent communication keeps your team grounded, no matter how unpredictable things get.

If you’re working on clarity, you won’t want to miss our article on getting beyond “Magical Thinking.”

Powerful Phrases to Create Better Clarity in High-Performing Teams

Ask: “What would a successful outcome do for you?”

This powerful phrase helps teams align on success criteria and go a level deeper and talk about personal motivations and desires.

To confirm understanding, say, “What I’m hearing is __. Do I have that right?” This simple check can save your team from countless headaches caused by miscommunication.

When everyone is clear on the goal and aligned on the path, pressure doesn’t feel as overwhelming. Instead, it becomes a motivator, driving the team toward shared success with precision and confidence.

More on our G.O.A.T. (greatest of all time) powerful phrases here.

Curiosity: Are We Genuinely Interested in Each Other’s Perspectives and What’s Possible?

One of the best ways to foster curiosity is by “inviting diverse perspectives.” When things are feeling intense, asking, “What’s another way we could approach this problem?” invites your team to think outside the box. You’ll get multiple viewpoints, foster creativity, and remind your team that everyone’s input matters—especially when the pressure’s on.

Another great habit is “challenging assumptions.” In uncertain times, it’s crucial to think creatively. Encourage your team to ask deeper questions like, “How would we handle this if our budget got cut in half?” You’ll force the team to think creatively and explore new solutions when the usual approaches aren’t available.

Also, don’t forget to encourage people to “change their minds” when needed. During uncertainty, flexibility is a superpower. A team that’s willing to adapt to new information and perspectives will be better equipped to navigate challenges and embrace whatever comes next.

Powerful Phrases to Cultivate Curiosity for a More Creative Team

Use, “I’m curious how this looks from your perspective,” to invite input. Or ask, “What’s one thing we haven’t considered yet?” to encourage exploration beyond the obvious.

If you want more remarkable, usable ideas from your team, you won’t want to miss Karin’s TEDx The Secret to Getting More Remarkable Ideas You Can Actually Use

Commitment: Do We Have a Clear Agreement?

In high-performing teams, commitment goes beyond agreeing in meetings. It’s about accountability, follow-through, and ensuring everyone is invested in the team’s success. When the pressure’s on, commitment becomes even more important. A truly committed team doesn’t just talk—they act, even when things are changing fast.

Commitment means everyone knows their responsibilities and is ready to deliver, no matter how tough things get. One key question to ask is: “Do we have a clear agreement?” Strong commitment keeps the team in sync, holding each other accountable.

One vital habit is “scheduling the finish.” Don’t just assign tasks—set clear finish lines, follow-ups, and discuss competing priorities. For example, “Let’s check back next Friday to see our progress – can we get do these first three steps by then?” This keeps commitments from getting lost and ensures results, even as priorities shift.

Finally, don’t forget to “celebrate success.” In uncertain times, morale can dip. Recognize progress, no matter how small. Saying, “Great job on this phase—let’s build on that momentum!” reminds the team their efforts matter. Celebrating small wins keeps energy high and reinforces commitment to the team’s goals.

For more Commitment Habits See:  Create Commitment: 12 Habits that Build Agreement and Accountability

Powerful Phrases to Strengthen Team Accountability

Use, “What’s one action we can both agree to as a next step?” to make sure there’s alignment and clarity on commitments. To keep accountability high, say, “Let’s schedule a follow-up to see how this is working,” ensuring that progress doesn’t slip through the cracks, even when uncertainty challenges the team’s focus.

By building and reinforcing commitment, you help your team stay grounded in action. They’ll not only know what’s expected—they’ll feel a shared sense of responsibility to deliver, even when external pressures rise. When commitment becomes a habit, your team turns intention into impact, making progress even when the going gets tough.

For more Powerful Phrases, check out our new book: Powerful Phrases for Dealing with Workplace Conflict (Free Sample Chapters). 

Better Habits: The Secret of High-Performing Teams

Building a high-performing team in challenging times isn’t just about getting through the stress—it’s about thriving in it. By intentionally focusing on connection, clarity, curiosity, and commitment, you’re laying the groundwork for a team that doesn’t just survive uncertainty but grows stronger because of it. These four dimensions of collaboration are your team’s foundation for navigating conflict, overcoming obstacles, and finding creative solutions when the pressure is on.

The good news? You don’t have to wait for the perfect conditions to build this kind of team. By adopting these habits and using powerful phrases in your everyday interactions, you’ll see a shift. Little by little, your team’s performance will rise, their collaboration will increase, and you’ll notice that even when the world outside feels unpredictable, your team is steady, confident, and ready for anything.

With each step you take to strengthen these habits, you’re creating a team that isn’t just prepared for the pressure—they’re ready to excel in it. So no matter what challenges come your way, you can trust that your team will come out stronger on the other side.

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Get curious about what “be a better team player” feedback means.

Your boss tells you you need to be a better team player. And you think, “Wait, what? Me? Where is this coming from?  I AM a team player. Do you know how much I care about this team and the work we do? Do you SEE how hard I work?”

But that’s your inside voice.

You don’t say THAT because you also care about your career and want your boss to respect you.

So what do you do next? How do you get underneath this vague (and frustrating feedback) and decide what to do next?

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5 Ways to Gain More Insight on How to Be (or Be Perceived) as a Better Team Player

“You are not a team player” is fuzzy feedback. It’s right up there with “you need to be a better critical thinker,” or, “be more strategic.” It’s hard to know exactly what that feedback means. Your best bet is to get curious and specific.

1. Ask for the CLARITY you need

The key here is to show up genuinely curious (and not defensive). If your words, tone of voice, or facial expression scream “I’m not interested in your F$*@#&% fuzzy feedback, you’re not helping your “I’m a team player” case.

Try this instead:

“Hey, thank you so much for caring about me and my career and wanting me to be successful. I want to be a team player. What do you think I could do so people see me as collaborative?

2. Look for PATTERNS

Have you received this kind of feedback before? Because if there is a pattern, you want to pay attention to it. 

Consider the unintended consequences of your well-meaning actions. Is your passionate nature being interpreted as aggression? Is your concern about getting it right, or avoiding problems, coming across as negative?

NOTE: If you think this is an issue, check out David’s Leadership Without Losing Your Soul Podcast episode: How to Be a Less Negative Leader.

3. Identify the HABITS that will enhance collaboration and change perceptions.Synergy Stack Team Development System

Based on your feedback and self-reflection, identify one or two specific habits that will help you to be a better team player. 

For example, suppose you learn you need to slow down and build relationships. In that case, you might choose a connection habit like reflecting the emotion you’re hearing, or taking time to learn about your coworkers’ people, pets, and projects.

Or, if you get feedback that you don’t appear receptive to new ideas or alternative ways of doing things, here’s a list of curiosity habits you might choose to work on.

One way we do this with our clients is to use our SynergyStack™ Team Development system, based on four dimensions of collaboration: connection, clarity, curiosity, and commitment.

4. Create a Mini-Personal Experiment

Of course, identifying the habits is the “easy” part. Now it’s time to translate that habit into tangible action. One way to do this is to choose a mini-personal experiment to engrain the habit. A mini-personal experiment is a new behavior or action that you will try for two weeks.

A mini-personal experiment should meet the following criteria:

  1. It’s easy to do every day
  2. It will help engrain a habit you desire
  3. And, it’s slightly uncomfortable– encouraging you to try something new.

5. Invite Ongoing Feedback

In our recent interview with world-renowned coach, Marshall Goldsmith he said, “Changing behavior is easy, changing perceptions of others is hard.” One of the best ways to do that is to let people know what you are working on. That way, when they see a change in behavior or a new habit, they are more likely to notice it.

The key is to get underneath the fuzzy feedback, so you can decide what you want to do next by focusing on tangible habits.

See Also:

Expert Strategies for Handling Vague Feedback From Your Boss (Podcast)

Why Your Great Boss Might Be Hurting Your Career

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Attention to Detail: How to Help Your Team Have Less “Oops” Moments https://letsgrowleaders.com/2024/07/22/attention-to-detail-help-your-team/ https://letsgrowleaders.com/2024/07/22/attention-to-detail-help-your-team/#respond Mon, 22 Jul 2024 10:00:35 +0000 https://letsgrowleaders.com/?p=255859 Help your team focus on the details for less stress and wasted time If you’re reading this article, you know how much attention to detail matters. There’s not much more infuriating than a consistent stream of sloppy mistakes. You’re not trying to micro-manage. You don’t have time for that.  But every time you catch a […]

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Help your team focus on the details for less stress and wasted time

If you’re reading this article, you know how much attention to detail matters. There’s not much more infuriating than a consistent stream of sloppy mistakes.

You’re not trying to micro-manage. You don’t have time for that.  But every time you catch a mistake it confirms your need to triple-check your team’s work. Plus, you’re a human-centered leader, and you don’t want to overreact to one small thing. But small issues add up and damage your ability to trust your team. 

So how do you get your team to sweat the small stuff as much as you do, without coming across as a jerk?

7 Ways to Build an Attention-to-Detail Culture

Help your team understand why attention to detail matters and how to do it well.

1. Set Clear Expectations

Be clear about your expectations and why they matter. Explain what sloppy mistakes communicate to your customers, stakeholders, and to the rest of the team. Get specific about what meticulous work looks like with examples.

Of course, they SHOULD know this stuff. But if you want to make attention to detail a habit, get specific.

For example:

  • Before you share a spreadsheet, ensure you’ve double-checked all the formulas.
  • Greet every customer with a warm smile and offer to help.
  • Run your writing through a grammar tool before submitting.
  • If you’re using a template, be sure what you’ve created makes sense for this customer or situation.

2. Demonstrate Your Process

Demonstrate the behaviors you want to see. Show them how you check your work, ask clarifying questions, and ensure precision in every task.Synergy Stack Team Development System

For example, “When I review a customer communication like this, here are the steps I follow and the questions I ask myself before I consider it done…”

You can also flip the script and have them walk you through their process.

Talking through a process out loud is one of the fastest ways to help a team member discover a missing step or come up with an idea to improve the quality of their work.

3. Create Processes and Checklists

Another great way to encourage attention to detail is to create processes and checklists for recurring tasks. Even better, encourage your team to develop checklists and share them.

Of course, you’ve got to ensure these checklists stay up to date– and that your team stays on the lookout for better ways to do things.

Encourage your team to meet to discuss what’s working and to suggest improvements. This ongoing dialogue helps maintain high standards and adapt to new challenges.

4. Use Technology Carefully

Used well, tools like project management software, automated checklists, and collaborative platforms are great ways to ensure tasks are completed accurately and on time.

Just be careful that your team isn’t outsourcing functions to AI without checking the quality. Every day we hear from frustrated managers reviewing the “crap” their team has given them by using AI carelessly.

5. Provide Training and Resources

In addition to setting clear expectations on what matters, be sure your team knows HOW to focus on the details, as well as how to manage their time to prevent frenetic scurries that lead to mistakes.

One practical time-saving communication tool is the “check for understanding”.  When you teach every team member to ensure the message sent is the message received, you can save a lot of time in rework or details slipping through the cracks.

6. Build a Peer Quality Check Process

You don’t always have to be the checker. Set an expectation that nothing comes to you without a peer review. Having another set of eyes on a project catches errors, improves quality, and offers different perspectives. This practice improves the quality of work and fosters a collaborative environment where team members learn from each other.

Plus, building a peer review process is another way to communicate how important quality checks are.

“On our team, quality matters. And we’re in this together.”

7. Recognize Excellence and Foster Accountability

Acknowledge and reward team members who consistently demonstrate great attention to detail. You get more of what you encourage and celebrate and less of what you ignore. Help your team to celebrate one another as part of their peer review process. When a co-worker checks the work and finds no concerns, celebrate that win.

You can also foster a culture of team accountability by training your team on specific techniques to hold one another accountable and techniques to talk about concerns when processes break down.  On the highest-performing teams, accountability is a team sport.

These seven strategies will help your team pay more attention to detail, resulting in less stress, better outcomes, and happier everybody.

What would you add? What are some of your favorite ways to help your team get it right the first time?

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Episode 251: In this episode, David Dye discusses transforming workplace conflict to collaboration. He introduces four dimensions that can help alleviate and deescalate conflicts. The four dimensions are: connection, clarity, curiosity, and commitment. David emphasizes the importance of having a conversation with oneself before engaging in conflict resolution and provides phrases and strategies for each dimension. David shares, “Powerful Phrases for Dealing with Workplace Conflict,” which offers over 300 phrases to deescalate conflicts and build trust. This episode will cover specific scenarios and provide practical tools for dealing with workplace conflict.

Practical Strategies for Navigating from Conflict to Collaboration

00:00 – 00:56 – David kicks off season 16 with a focus on transforming workplace conflict to collaboration. David shares that 70% of surveyed individuals report experiencing the same or greater levels of conflict at work. This sets the stage for a deep dive into conflict resolution strategies. 

00:57 – 02:02 – David introduces four key dimensions for addressing workplace conflict: connection, clarity, curiosity, and commitment. This framework aims to not only alleviate difficult conflicts but also promote better team collaboration.

02:03 – 02:37 – “Powerful Phrases for Dealing with Workplace Conflict” offers over 300 practical phrases to help deescalate common workplace disputes, emphasizing the importance of proactive communication in conflict resolution.

02:38-03:01 – Listeners like Nora, Jamie, Julianne, and others share their questions, highlighting the universal challenge of navigating workplace conflict to collaboration across various locations and contexts. 

04:03 – 05:51 – David delves into the psychological aspects of conflict. He explains how the brain’s survival instincts can exacerbate workplace disputes. This underscores the importance of thoughtful response over instinctual reaction.

05:52 – 08:34 – There are many factors contributing to increased workplace conflict, including pandemic aftereffects, economic instability, and changing work environments. David shares a comprehensive overview of the challenges leaders face.

08:35 – 15:34 – Through a personal anecdote, David illustrates the transformative power of confronting conflict, showcasing how candid dialogue can lead to unexpected resolutions and personal growth.

15:35 – 19:16 – The conversation shifts to the first dimension of conflict resolution, connection. David explains the importance of knowing your colleagues as human beings. This illustrates how a deeper understanding of each other’s perspectives can significantly ease conflict resolution.

19:17 – 20:44Clarity is highlighted as the second crucial dimension for effective conflict management. David discusses how getting on the same page and creating a shared understanding of expectations and outcomes can prevent misunderstandings and foster a collaborative environment.

20:45 – 22:53Curiosity is introduced as the third dimension, emphasizing the role of genuine interest in others’ perspectives for uncovering the root causes of conflict. David suggests that asking insightful questions cannot only provide new solutions but also pull individuals out of reactive states, fostering a more empathetic and productive dialogue.

22:54 – 26:25 – The conversation culminates with commitment, the fourth dimension, where David outlines the importance of translating discussions into specific, actionable commitments. He stresses the necessity of clear actions, owners, and timelines to ensure progress and prevent recurring conflicts. This approach can transform conflicts into opportunities for growth and collaboration.

26:26 – The episode wraps up with a compelling call to action for you to engage with the four dimensions of conflict resolution in your day-to-day challenges. David encourages personal reflection on the impact of staying silent and advocates for proactive communication as a key to transforming workplace conflicts into collaborative successes.

If you’d like more specific, practical phrases and approaches for common sources of workplace conflict, check out our newest book: Powerful Phrases for Dealing with Workplace Conflict—What to say next to de-stress the workplace, build collaboration, and calm difficult customers.

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If it feels like you never received your company-issued secret decoder ring, you’re likely dealing with unclear expectations.

Often, people have unspoken values or expectations, and there isn’t one “right” way to do things. Maybe your manager never clarified an important process. Or the team hasn’t agreed on norms, so you’ve found yourself in a conflict cocktail of vague and unclear expectations and strong points of view.

Here’s an example that many remote and hybrid teams experience: should you have your cameras on during a meeting?

Your coworker, Rachel, may feel like it’s completely unnecessary. It drains her energy. Most of the time, no one asks her opinion anyway, and her surroundings aren’t chic, so why turn on the camera? For her, a camera-off policy is as comfortable as wearing pajamas during a work call – no one knows, but it feels just right.

For Zach, however, the lack of face time is disrespectful and frustrating as he presents his project and seeks feedback. “Cameras should always be on,” he insists, “unless you’ve got to step away or sneeze or something.” He views a camera-on policy like a firm handshake – a sign of respect and engagement.

“No,” interjects your colleague, Pat, “that’s wasteful and unnecessary. We only need to be on camera for clients or for a real discussion.” Pat prefers a pragmatic approach, seeing camera use as a tool, not a rule, like using an umbrella only when it rains.

This is a classic case of unclear expectations creating ‘camera drama,’ where a lack of established norms creates conflict. None of these people is “right” as there is no objectively “right or wrong” answer for cameras. It’s more about preference than policy, like choosing between coffee or tea for your morning boost.

Finding Clarity When Rules Are Fuzzy

In every organization, there will be activity that isn’t covered by a corporate policy. As norms shift, technology changes, and social standards develop, you and your team can resolve these ambiguous norms and unclear expectations with a conversation. If there’s no company policy, it can either become a conflict—or an opportunity to use some Powerful Phrases and build a team agreement, much like deciding on the office’s unofficial dress code.

This is one of those workplace conflicts that takes some investigation and intentional conversation to understand what’s happening. It’s so easy to get caught up in an argument without realizing that it’s really a lack of clarity, like arguing over who finished the milk without checking the fridge first. As you see a conflict building, start with Powerful Phrases that “put the fish on the table,” and help people understand what’s happening.

Note: This article contains 12 vital “clarity habits” for better collaboration.

Powerful Phrases for Dealing with Unclear Norms and Expectations

“It is very simple, but hard to do. Set expectations and follow through.”
-Male, 65, Israel, The World Workplace Conflict and Collaboration Survey

“It seems that we see this differently…”

Summarize the situation and call attention to the fact that people have different perspectives. This might feel like stating the obvious, but it helps everyone rise above their position to see the situation more objectively, like taking a step back to see the whole elephant, not just its trunk.

“Here’s the challenge we face…”

Now you describe the consequences if the lack of clarity continues. For example: “There’s no rule about this, so it’s up to us to figure out. The challenge we face if we don’t agree on how we use cameras is that we’ll all feel resentful, disrespected, and exhausted.”

“I know that’s not what we want… I’m confident we can…”

As you describe the negative consequences, you can then call everyone to their best intentions with this Powerful Phrase. It assumes good intent. For example:

“I know we don’t want to exhaust each other. And I know we all want to feel supported, seen, respected, and valued as we do our work. I’m confident we can come up with an agreement that will work for all of us.”

“Let’s decide how to decide.”

At this point in your conversation, the team might realize that it’s someone’s job to make a call. If so, invite them to the discussion or make an appointment to talk with them. Use the same Powerful Phrases from Chapter 12—Navigating Competing Goals to have a conversation with the decision-maker and get clarity.

But, when there’s no assigned decision-maker, it’s helpful to agree first on how the group will decide. Usually, this is going to be a vote or consensus. In a vote, the majority rules. In consensus, everyone can live with a choice, even if it wasn’t their first option. For example:

“Okay, this one’s our call. Is everyone comfortable with a vote? Or do we want to go for consensus?”

(And yes, that’s an example of a quick consensus decision about whether to use a vote or consensus. So meta, right?)

In conclusion, navigating the murky waters of workplace norms and unclear expectations can be like trying to assemble furniture without instructions – frustrating, but not impossible. By using Powerful Phrases, teams can not only build bridges over these gaps of misunderstanding but also strengthen their collaborative spirit. Remember, the goal isn’t to win the argument but to find a solution that works for everyone, like choosing a movie everyone can enjoy on movie night. So next time you’re in a camera-on or camera-off debate, remember, it’s not just about seeing faces; it’s about seeing eye to eye.

Your turn. What’s one powerful phrase you like to use to clarify unclear expectations?

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If you want better collaboration, eliminate these phrases from your team communication.

You didn’t mean to tick them off, but here you are. Your words backfiring like a faulty engine, and now a cloud of awkwardness fills the room. You know collaboration matters and you want to be a team player. So what went wrong?

5 Phrases to Avoid if You Want Better Collaboration on Your Team

Let’s talk about some of the most common phrases that sabotage collaboration, why they’re so annoying, and what to do instead.

1. Let’s Agree to Disagree

In the realm of collaboration, “Let’s Agree to Disagree” is basically your team’s attempt at taking a shortcut around a gnarly problem—except this shortcut leads straight into a brick wall painted like a tunnel à la Wile E. Coyote. You’re not solving anything. What you’re really saying is, “I value the absence of conflict more than I value arriving at a shared solution.”

Sure, it momentarily saves face, avoids immediate friction, and allows everyone to sidestep the awkwardness—but it also bookmarks that problem for a sequel. Now you’ve got an unresolved issue lurking in the background like an unopened email forever marked as ‘important’ but never read.

Instead of closing the door on discussion, why not keep it ajar for more ideas, refinements, and maybe—just maybe—finding a path to team unity that doesn’t involve mutual evasion tactics?

If you’re looking for some additional confidence and conversation starters see, Let’s Talk About It: How to Start the Conversation Everyone Wants to Avoid.

And a few of our Powerful Phrases G.O.A.T.s work great here too.  For example:

“I care about _____ (you, this team, this project) and I’m confident we can find a solution that we can all work with.” or “Let’s start with what we agree on.”

2. It’s Too Late to Change Course Now

This phrase acts like quicksand for team progress, promoting a fixed and inflexible approach that could stifle innovation and adaptability. By saying it’s too late to change course, the team shuts down opportunities to adapt to new circumstances or pivot based on fresh insights. It can trap the team in a “sunk cost fallacy,” escalating commitments to failing or suboptimal projects. The phrase discourages reevaluation and course correction, which are often necessary for fast-paced, ever-changing landscapes.

Curiosity powerful phrases work great here.

“I know we’ve already invested a lot here, and changing course would be rough. But I’m curious about what you’re thinking. Can you tell me more?”

See Also: How to Not Be Perceived as Negative at Work.

3. I’ve Done My Part, The Rest Is Up to You

This phrase sounds like a benign statement of task completion, but its impact is anything but. It subtly erodes the sense of collective ownership and accountability that are vital for effective teamwork. By declaring that one has “done their part,” it implies a disinterest in the project’s broader success and fosters a culture of siloed responsibilities. This can be detrimental to team morale and unity, as it signals a lack of engagement with the project’s overall objectives. Moreover, it inhibits cross-functional collaboration and skill-sharing, ultimately limiting the team’s versatility and adaptability.

Instead try, “What can I do to be helpful here?”

4. That’s a Terrible Idea

You’re not Simon Cowell judging amateur karaoke, and even if you were, every idea has some merit. In an era of disruptions and paradigm shifts, the ‘terrible’ idea you scoff at could well be the next big thing. Instead of shutting down your colleagues, respond with regard, with gratitude, information, and an invitation to continue contribution.

For more on responding well and getting more remarkable ideas, you might want to take a peek at Karin’s popular TEDx talk, The Secret to Getting Remarkable Ideas You Can Actually Use. 

5. We don’t have time for this

Of course, it might be true. You might not have time to talk about their idea or suggestion right now. And, if you want better collaboration, consider how you can keep the conversation on track while being respectful of what your teammates want to say.

Instead, you might try a few of these phrases for better collaboration.

“This is an important topic; let’s schedule a dedicated meeting to discuss it.”

“I understand this is a key issue. Can you summarize it in a few points, and then we’ll decide on the best time to dig deeper?”

“Let’s identify the most immediate priorities for today’s meeting, and make sure we allocate time for this in the near future.”

This one is a proactive approach that involves the team in prioritizing tasks, including the issue brought up, for future discussions.

In conclusion, the next time you find these phrases slipping off the tip of your tongue, pause. Replace them with phrases that promote an atmosphere of innovation, openness, and collaboration. It’s not just about keeping up with the buzzwords; it’s about fostering a culture where everyone’s a buzz-worthy contributor.

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Inspire team innovation with an idea garden, saving great ideas for future growth.

Hi Karin, “I attended your Courageous Cultures, how to Read Courageous Cultures with your team book club, and we loved it. We are using the book and we’re reading it. The good news is we’re getting SO MANY IDEAS.  I continue to respond with regard (with gratitude, information, and an invitation) to the ideas I receive. The team knows I want their ideas, so they keep bringing me more. Now I have too many ideas. I don’t want to crush team innovation, but I can’t possibly use them all.

How do I respond and SAVE THE IDEAS for later? #AskingForaFriend

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The Challenge of Abundance: Too Many Ideas, Too Little Time

First let me say, GREAT JOB! You’re doing a lot of things right when it comes to fostering psychological safety and encouraging team innovation.

I would start by ensuring that everyone understands your vision and your MIT priorities. The more clear people are about where you need a great idea, the more remarkable, usable ideas you’ll receive.

This is the essence of my TEDx Talk: How to Help Your Team Bring You Remarkable, Usable Ideas

The best innovation comes from a combination of strategic clarity and psychological safety.  See our article in Smartbrief on Leadership: Safety First, Clarity Next: The Secret Formula For Better Workplace Innovation.

The Idea Garden: A Solution for Sustainable Team Innovation

Even with strategic clarity, you’re still going to get some great ideas you don’t want to lose, or that might be useful to consider as your strategy evolves.

Enter the “Idea Garden,” an innovative approach to team collaboration that acts as a repository for creativity. Here’s how it works:

  • A Place for Every Idea: In this garden, no idea is too small or too wild. It’s a space where every seed of thought is valued and preserved, ensuring that nothing is lost in the hustle of immediate priorities.
  • Accessible and Organized: Using project management software, this garden is not a wild thicket but an organized oasis. Ideas are cataloged, making it easy to revisit and nurture them when the time is ripe.
  • Inspired Team Innovation: It’s a space where members not only pitch their ideas but also appreciate the creativity of their peers.

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Here are five reasons why team innovation is so important.

  1. Ensures No Idea Is Left Behind: In the rush of deadlines and deliverables, brilliant ideas can slip through the cracks. The idea garden ensures that doesn’t happen.
  2. Encourages Continuous Engagement: Knowing that their ideas are valued and preserved, team members are more likely to continue contributing enthusiastically.
  3. Fosters a Culture of Innovation: By institutionalizing the practice of saving and revisiting ideas, you create an environment where innovation is not just encouraged but expected.
  4. Improves Project Management: With ideas organized and accessible, integrating them into future projects becomes seamless.
  5. Strengthens Team Bonding: Collaborating on nurturing ideas strengthens relationships and builds a sense of shared purpose.

Cultivating creative team collaboration in an idea garden helps you manage an abundance of ideas. It’s a strategy that not only saves ideas for later but enriches the soil of creativity from which future innovations will sprout. So, next time your team’s creativity feels like a wild garden, remember: with the right approach, you can turn it into a well-tended haven of remarkable ideas.

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To do more, clarify who owns the decision and know when it’s time to move

Is your team full of good intentions and meaningful conversations that don’t translate into action and results? Do discussions regularly bog down in analysis paralysis? Or do you havedo more - ignite action card choke points of one overwhelmed expert or manager that keeps everyone else waiting around? If any of these are true of your team, here are seven ways to help your team do more, improve morale, collaborate, and grow together.

7 Ways to Help Your Team Do More

1. Clarify Who Owns the Decision (Ideally, the person closest to the decision)

One of the biggest reasons teams bog down in discussions is a lack of clarity about who owns the decision. People feel disempowered and discussion grinds to a frustrated halt. Keep things moving by clarifying who owns the decision.

Ideally, this is the person or people closest to the decision. Avoid making yourself a choke point for decisions by ensuring people have the information and criteria they need to make an effective decision.

2. Provide Context for Decisions

When you begin a discussion, empower your team by giving them the information that’s relevant to the decision.

If there are specific success criteria, boundaries to observe, or regulatory issues, get them in the conversation from the beginning so people don’t waste time “discovering” them for themselves. Share what a successful outcome will do so everyone knows what they’re looking for.

If your team regularly brings you solutions that won’t work, they probably don’t understand the context well enough. Help them do more by taking time to make sure they have the information they need to make relevant, strategic decisions.

3. Recognize When You Begin Repeating Yourselves

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One way to get there is to pay attention to when you repeat yourselves.

If it’s the third time someone (including you) has shared the same anecdote or concern, acknowledge it. You might say, “We are all repeating ourselves now. Sounds like it’s time to summarize and move on. Does anyone have something to add that we haven’t discussed yet?”

People repeat themselves when they don’t feel heard, so ensure the point is made, recorded, and acknowledged. You might help facilitate check for understanding among participants to ensure everyone understands relevant information.

For example, “Victor, that’s the third time you’ve mentioned how the last change cost us a big account. I want to ensure everyone’s got that and make sure we’re not rehashing so we can get all the perspectives in the conversation. Alicia, can you summarize what you hear Victor saying and let’s make sure it’s in the notes.”

4. Ask If There Is Specific Additional Information or Perspective Critical to Make a Good Decision

What else does the team need to know before moving on? Sometimes just asking this question will help everyone realize that there isn’t anything to add. It’s time to decide.

Other times, this question will provide clarity. “Oh, we really need to know a realistic IT implementation time and if there is any other way we might get that part done.” If that’s critical, you can make gaining that information a key next step.

5. Identify the Next Specific Action to Take

Help your team do more by moving from ideas and intention to activity by getting specific and detailed about next steps. Avoid corporate jargon. There’s no “run it up the flagpole” or “stakeholdering” or “we’ll talk offline.” Those are vague intentions.

Be specific. If the next step is for Valeria to discuss two specific regulatory issues with Jose from legal, say so. Everyone should be able to state what will happen next. A good check for understanding here will help clear up any misunderstandings.

6. Identify Who Owns the Next Step

One reliable way to move from great discussions and intentions to practical action is for one person to have responsibility for following through. Several people might participate in the activity, event, or project, but one person is responsible for ensuring it happens. This avoids the “when everyone’s responsible, no one is” conflict.

7. Schedule the Finish

How will you and your team know the next steps have happened and are ready for their response? Schedule the finish by setting a specific time on the calendar of everyone involved in the handoff to go over what was done and what is next. This can be a five or ten-minute meeting. Scheduling the finish ensures people do more, follow through with their responsibilities, and provides an opportunity to reset for the next steps.

Your Turn

When your team has tight conversations that lead to meaningful results, trust and morale improve along with the team’s capacity to make even more meaningful decisions.

You can help your team avoid endless discussions, analysis paralysis, and chokepoints by clarifying who owns the decision, ensuring they have the necessary information, and moving conversations to action and ownership.

We’d love to hear from you. What would you add? What is one of your favorite ways to help your team avoid over-talking and do more?

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How to help your team challenge assumptions for better creativity and problem-solving

In our Courageous Cultures research, 67% said their manager operates around the notion of “this is the way we’ve always done it.” That’s not just a lack of imagination. It’s hard to solve a problem differently when you’re holding on to outdated assumptions. If you want your team to get better at strategic thinking, start by helping them challenge assumptions.

Here are seven of our favorite questions to help your team reframe problems and consider alternative perspectives

7 Questions For More Strategic Thinking

1. How would our competitors approach this problem?

This assumption-buster nudges your team to consider overlooked opportunities. Understanding a competitor’s angle can be incredibly insightful, sparking creativity and perhaps, a bit of that winning spirit.

This is one of our favorite questions to ignite strategic thinking because it’s not only an “I wonder” question. Because guess what? Your competitors probably ARE faced with a similar problem. And these days, it’s not that hard to poke around and see what they’re doing.

This question also promotes strategic thinking, as you consider why your competitors might approach problems differently.

In Courageous Cultures terminology, this is a great question to ask as part of the Y- in Own the U.G.L.Y. Where are we missing the Yes?

2. How would we handle this issue if our budget was cut in half?

This provocative question is a call for efficiency and prioritization. This question encourages your team to think lean and imagine scrappy, cost-effective solutions. Sometimes, a little budgetary pressure can hatch the most brilliant ideas.

3. If we had unlimited resources, how would we solve this problem?

This strategic thinking question is the flip side of the one above. When constraints are lifted, the sky’s the limit for creativity. It allows the team to think without barriers and then work backward, scaling grand visions to match our resource constraints.

4. What would happen if we did the opposite of our initial plan?

This question invites the team to view the problem from an entirely different angle, potentially revealing unexpected solutions. It’s about challenging the norm and the beauty of 180-degree thinking.

Encourage your team to think past the sunk costs and consider a do-over. This kind of strategic thinking is remarkably liberating. A related question is “What if we DIDN’T do it this way?”

5. What would future generations criticize about our current approach?

This assumption buster instills a sense of legacy and responsibility. It encourages your team to think beyond the immediate and into the long-term impact of their decisions. It’s about making decisions that our successors will thank us for.

This is a great way to expand your team’s thinking to more sustainable, inclusive solutions.

6. If we could only choose one aspect of our project to succeed, what should it be and why?

This is a great way to get your team thinking about the MITs (most important things). Identifying the core element that defines the success of the entire project can help the team focus on what truly matters. It’s like finding the keystone in an arch; without it, everything else crumbles.

A related question, “Which elements of this project should we say “no” to? Note: We have an entire chapter in our upcoming book, Powerful Phrases for Dealing With Workplace Conflict about how to say no, for a more strategic yes.

7. What would we do differently if we were to start over with the knowledge we have now?

This is a look down the mountain question. Help your team reflect on the journey. This strategic thinking question is a recognition that wisdom today results from yesterday’s lessons.

When you’re working hard and moving fast, it’s not always easy to take a step back and challenge assumptions. When you’re feeling stuck in a rut, or results are suffering, invite your team to show up more curious and with these strategic questions.

What would you add for #8? What’s your favorite question to foster strategic thinking?

See Also: Year in Review: 7 Questions to Help Your Team Reflect on Success and Key Learnings

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